BEING HARD AND COLD IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND CARRYING IT INTO THE BEDROOM PROVES NOTHING!
This was taken from a concerned man that was married to a hard and cold woman. Although he took it as a strength in the begining its beginning to drive a wedge between him and his wife.
“I work the graveyard shift so I don’t have to be at home with my wife.” –Derek, police officer
That response was from a man who had been married less than one year and was already engaged in a cold war with his wife. Most of the time she was openly disrespectful to him as a human being, not just as a man. Other times she was cold and aloof, barely acknowledging that he was in the room. Believe it or not, men have feelings too. Hard and cold behavior is enough to drive anyone away. Again, we aren’t asking to be cradled like babies. But every man wants home to be a safe refuge from the cold-hearted world. However, when the world at home is colder than the work world, there is no solace.
Is there any advice for Derek or his life’s partner?